Episode 52 :: Owning Your Preferences

19th September 2019

Show Notes:

A personal episode for me this week. I share how I have come to really own my preferences: from NOT camping to learning how to say a clean and boundaried ‘no’.

Twas not always thus! I sometimes joke that I am a Recovering People Pleaser, but I don’t want to make light of what has been a huge developmental process. To own our preferences we must make peace with the possibility that we will be disliked, we’ll create tension and conflict, and we may be rejected.

But even though all these things have happened, it’s still worth it to be me, in every context, all the time.

In this episode, I share how I uncovered the root causes of this aspect of my self-doubt, how healing these events was just the beginning and how my experience helped me to create the process we go through in Your Self-belief Map.

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Episode image credit:

Ole Witt



Hello, I'm Sas Petherick. I'm a self-doubt researcher, coach and podcaster who helps thinking humans transcend self-doubt. If you'd like to receive episodes in your inbox please subscribe here (with bonus info and first notice of opportunities to work with me). PS: I totallyInstagram - join me there?